Cleaning out the darkness.

Dec 14, 2022

Take the final step in leaving behind core abuse frequencies running you and your close relationships. Extricate yourself from any internal identity complex controlling you and your interactions. Meet and operate out of the purity of yourself rather than rage, resentment or assumed spiritual behaviours adopted to deny the pain you are enduring. Confront any darkness assuming your own personality so the right healthy action spontaneously appears.

If we have suffered or are suffering extreme abuse in our lives, we can become welded to an authoritarian identity which we develop to put all wrongs right in the world. This constantly strives to dig out the root cause of things; challenges and fight personalities doing you personal harm; threatens to impose sanctions; and even to cut you off from someone you deeply love.

Any or all of these things may well turn out to be the correct course of action. However there is a difference between being free of the identity which deals with all these issues and merely being free of any one external party that is abusive. All too often we become so entrenched in our engagement with both, we form an internal, double identity which unwittingly completely controls us.

This potentially means we ourselves become an abuser, completely locked together with those who abuse us. We may endure long term relationships where abuse only escalates in the name of love. The first step to resolving this is disengaging from our own control complex and seeing through its dual mechanism. Only when this purifies can the rest become undone.  

Related events: [SIR 3] When we identify with self hatred, we can never really love another; Boundaries & abuse; Breaking with the darkness: sexual trauma & control; Childhood abuse & trauma; Double life: re-entry!; Eliminating destructive patterns of power & control in relationships; Erasing duplicity; Persistent abuse frequencies; Recovering from extreme abuse; Revenge, abuse & self hatred.

Event: Reboot groups.

Theme: Reboot groups; Crisis, pain & challenge; Family issues; Love & relationships.

Included: 1 mp3 link (20 mins), 1 transcript (pdf).


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