Jul 1, 2020
Detach and make decisions in the strength and neutrality of just your own source connection before you collaborate, make decisions or risk giving your power away. Establish your life in the body setting of mutual togetherness so relationships are never a problem. Experience healthy collaboration: always strengthening in what you want.
Bending into another’s way of being is not mutual togetherness. Collaboration and helping someone must be from a position of strength, rooted in only your own source connection. These days going to someone for help is even seen as weakness or dependency. Humans can only grow in relationship with each other though. Rather than no interaction, the challenge is for that relation to not be one of abuse. So how to ensure that you retain your own personal sovereignty while still being able to work, live with or love another? How to make a decision which does not comply with someone else, leaving yourself out, or supports a negative agenda?
You must know what you want first. This is often not easy because either we don’t know when we start out – or we do know but we either miss it … or we are too afraid to go through with it. If we have endured extreme abuse, it is likely we will not be able to register or even act on something we want, even when we know it. But there is a way to deal with this. We can take in all of the information internally and externally, trying to make a decision, but then we have to stop. First we simply need to find ourselves amidst this process, feel solid, and then we can proceed.
This step does not require any knowledge at all of what we might want or what we are going to do. It is a body orientation which registers first, just being with yourself. From this we find that knowing what you want is a physical setting; not a piece of information. It is first, a togetherness with your own being, deepening in your own source connection and your own body feeling. When we have that solidity, surety and connectedness with our own self – then we can build more, external, togetherness. Whatever comes next will be rooted in equal exchange.
Event: Reboot groups.
Included: 1 mp3 (20 mins), 1 transcript (pdf).
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